Thursday, July 16, 2015

Big News!

So if you read the previous post we ended with a prayer request and said we would update when God answered.  We were waiting for our official approval from China and were praying to receive it before Blair left for Mexico.  Once again God had the perfect timing and we received email news on Tuesday stating we had received approval and then received the hard copy today. Plenty of time to sign and return before Blair leaves for Mexico on Monday!  The approval came just 40 days after all our paperwork was officially logged in in China.  The amazing thing about 40 days is that one of our prayer warriors mentioned a few weeks ago that God was saying 40 days was significant!  Love how God works!

Also for those of you following along on our financial journey to bring the boys home, we have big news in that area as well.  We have been blessed by your giving and have reached the $4,000 mark, which means we will get our matching grant from Lifesong!  We received this blessing within hours of receiving our official approval from China and the timing was again so clearly God designed.

With the big news this week comes the excitement of knowing travel is coming soon.  Our agency says to expect to travel within 9-12 weeks.  We mentioned before that at the beginning of October is a big National holiday in China so there will be no traveling during that time.  If we get travel approval to go in 9 weeks we would be able to go before the holiday.  If not we will travel in 12 weeks after the holiday.  We are praying for 9 weeks, but trusting again in God's timing!

The Official Documents!!


Thursday, July 9, 2015

The Hand of God

We have said from day 1 we need to write down the many answers to prayer along this journey, so here are just a few.  It has been so clear to us that God has been evident throughout this journey but it was difficult to capture in a short blog!

1.  In the previous entry I spoke briefly of  how we chose our international agency after much prayer. However I didn't share that we had attended an adoption introduction class at our church last summer and heard several couples share about agencies.  One of the agencies was CCAI.  We googled and researched it shortly after but wanted a more personal connection/story.  Just a few weeks later Blair heard a couple talking to his administrative assistant  in the student ministries offices and they were sharing about their adoption process.  The agency they were talking about was CCAI, the one we were researching.  Shortly thereafter we submitted our application.  After nearly a year of research God's timing in this decision was incredible (see #2 for why).

2.  Our application was approved by our international agency and so the next step was getting a local agency to do our home study.  We had just completed that application when we received the call for the match for twin A.  All that time researching had lead to the right agency and right timing for a quick match.  This also meant we had to move quickly on the paperwork for our home study.  However the timing of the match and the point we were in the paperwork was just right for God to move again (see #3 for why).

3.  Again we didn't set out to adopt 2 children but we checked yes for multiples in case we were matched with a child with a sibling.  We also understood this was rare.  China has only recently allowed for multiple adoptions and not all agencies will even do it.  On top of that even if matched with 2, many social workers only write the home study approving a family for 1 adoption.  In order for paperwork to be completed for 2, the home study has to state 2, and you can't be too far in the paperwork for 1 already approved.  Basically it's a very narrow window!  So when we got the call that we were a match for twin B we "just happened" to be in that tiny window where we hadn't gone too far into the paperwork with 1 and our home study could still be written for 2.  However when we were matched with the 2nd we only had 5 months left to complete all paperwork for the dossier and get it to China.  This nearly impossible 5 month window was again well within God's grasp (see #4)

4.  Since we were matched with twin A in December the 6 month paperwork deadline started at that point for both boys.  We were very diligent in completing what we needed to as fast as possible, but most documents we had to send away for and wait on state departments to authenticate.  We prayed for each document each step of the way.  The final wait was for the immigration document.  This is known to be the longest wait and usually there isn't a call to check on the progress.  Following other adoption blogs we knew to expect about a 45-60 day wait.  We were informed near the end that we could call to see if we'd been assigned a case manager.  We thought we only had about a 2 week window to get the approval in order to get everything sent to DC, and then to our agency for translation to get it to China before the 6 months ran up.  So Blair made the call.  The agent informed him that our case manager was gone for the day but they did find our application on his desk.  It appeared to them that nothing had been started.  We knew that it took weeks for each application so if it wasn't started we'd never get it back in time.  We prayed that night for a miracle and went to bed restless.  The next day we received an email that our application had been approved the day before and was being mailed out that week.  It didn't show up on the desk because it was already done when Blair called! This wouldn't be the last time that paperwork showed up so quickly (see #5).

5.  After this last document came back and we had everything authenticated by the Chinese Consolate in DC it was time for final review by our agency.  We sent our dossier to be reviewed in Georgia (based on where we live) and then they fed ex it to CCAI's main office in CO.  We received the tracking info on a Friday and it said it would arrive the next Thursday.  We thought that seemed like a long time, but we tracked it multiple times a day.  By Monday it was already at a Fed Ex location about 20 miles from our agency.  We thought that meant an early delivery, so when it wasn't delivered  Tuesday or Wednesday, Blair called early Thursday to see why it hadn't moved.  They could not find our package, it was lost!  Naturally we called our prayer warriors and prayed for a miracle.  Less than 2 hours later our agency called and said the "lost package" was delivered.  As if that wasn't amazing enough 24 hours later it was on its way to China.

6.  Now the most current evidence of God happened yesterday.  We are on day 33 of our approval wait in China.  We have heard wait times are averaging 45 days.  We also knew that we would get an email stating it was out of translation and in critical review (the last step before approval).  We had been praying to get approval before Blair left for Mexico so we could sign and return the papers right away.  We knew that meant we needed to get the email this week about our dossier being in critical review.  So we called for prayer support and in amazing God fashion we had the email within 2 hours stating we were in critical review.

7.  Id love to post in our next blog about how we got official approval before Blair leaves for Mexico so if you would like to join our prayer warriors I will update as soon as God answers that prayer!  What an awesome God we serve and thank you for joining us on this adventure He is guiding us along!

Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all He has done. Then you will experience God's peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7

Wednesday, June 24, 2015

Our Journey

All though we just recently made the announcement that we are adopting, this has not been a recent decision.  We desired for Gibson to have a sibling, but knew shortly after his difficult birth that if we were to have more children we would adopt.  Adoption was something we both had a desire for but this event really began the journey.  After our move to Tennessee in 2012 we began to explore domestic vs. international adoption.  We spent more than a year reading adoption blogs, speaking to adoptive parents and attending adoption workshops.  After that year we both felt God leading us toward international adoption and specifically China.  Once we determined to explore China we began to research international adoption agencies and ultimately chose to partner with CCAI (Chinese Children Adoption International) out of Colorado.  We formally submitted our application in October 2014.

Once we chose our international agency we found a local adoption agency to begin our home study.  We started the background check phase (needing clearance from each state we had lived in).  About 1 month into our process we began to look at a file of a little 1 year old.  We had a week to look over the limited paperwork and short 5 second video clips before we said yes on December 9.  We received pre approval from China on December 22.  This meant we had exactly 6 months to complete all paperwork and get it to China.  The "paper chase" as it is often referred to in the adoption world included getting current copies of birth certificates, our marriage license, intense medical check ups, financial statements, etc.  Each of these papers needed to be authenticated locally, by the state they originated and then by the Chinese Consulate.  Simultaneous to this paper chase we began meeting with the social worker to complete our home study.

While we were authenticating several papers in Nashville right after Christmas, we received a call from our international agency.  To our surprise they said we were matched with a 2nd child if we would be interested in looking at his file.  We did not set out on this journey to bring home 2 children but we checked yes to multiple children on our application in case we were matched with a child with a sibling (we didn't want to separate siblings).  After making sure we wouldn't be "taking away" a file from another family, our agency assured us this child did not match any other family in their system.  With that information we said we would look at his file.  Strangely enough we were sitting in an IHOP waiting for our tire to get fixed (we'd had a flat at Opryland hotel the night before) and had plenty of time to check out the file.  Once we saw the pictures and read about this new little guy we were pretty smitten.

We took about a week to pray and think through logistics and officially said yes on January 8, 2015.  Since that time we finished authenticating all the paperwork, completed our home study and got approval from immigration to adopt from China.  We have also taken the time to prepare for the adjustments bringing home 2 boys will take for our home.  We still have a lot of waiting left to do, but that also allows us time to continue to prepare as much as possible.

Stay tuned for more of the story.  In the meantime, here are the first pics that we got in their files. Now you can see why it was an easy yes for us!!
Twin A

Twin B

God in His holy dwelling is a Father to the fatherless......
Psalm 68:5